Why don't you think you're worth it?

Have you ever challenged those feelings that challenge you?

The 'supposed' lack of confidence, imposter syndrome, rejection and more.

If the answer is no, then your challenge now is to say yes I will challenge these thoughts.
As you get older you get to an understanding that being in denial, ignoring and pushing aside things that eat you up inside is to your detriment. Lets be responsible enough to address matters of our concern and further take action to dismiss or entertain.




One of the reasons we may think that we are not worth it starts from somewhere closer than we think. Our inner voice, how we talk to ourselves on a daily basis.

What do your inner conversations resemble?
Do they resemble the future you're working towards or in fact pushing you further away when you come to think of it...?

Another big reason we may not feel like we're worth it when we most certainly are is because of what they said. The negative experiences with other people that knocked down our confidence. People that directly told us we're not worth it or that we lack in certain areas. Sometimes these experiences don't actually involve verbal communication but how we read into situations and the assumptions we develop (which can be extremely ridiculous and unhealthy).

If someone has made you feel like you're not worth it or has told you so then this is ultimately a reflection of them and not you. Just because we are not suitable/worth it for someone doesn't mean we are not in ourselves. As human beings we are allowed to have wants, needs and opinions that are different. The power is in us as individuals to determine whether we're worth it. As it is said 'One man's trash is another man's treasure.' Perspective and uniqueness are big factors in this.

One reason I thought I wasn't worth it when it came to pursuing my goals and desires was the simple fact that I didn't much act like it. The opportunities I would search for would not reflect how I valued myself. This was mainly due to not genuinely believing that, my circumstance could change to the capacity I wanted it to. Don't get me wrong I was putting in the work but putting in the work without faith/the mindset for dreams to come true is not the greatest formula.

It's time for you to believe that you're worth it and know that you are.
These are pure facts.

I think a good way to overcome any thought/feeling about not thinking you're worth it is

-Manifesting and affirming you are.
-Not accepting situations that tell you opposite.
-Saying yes and no with intention.
-Accepting situations/offers that match your worth.
-Changing goals or sticking to them with more confidence.
-Loving the journey and taking challenges as a means of growth.
-Not taking people's opinions too seriously or personally.

And rightly said by Nayyirah Waheed

“Even if you are a small forest surviving off of moon alone, your light is extraordinary.”


Always.